Love thrives when neither partner takes things personally, so cultivate a
devotion to forgiveness and divest yourself of the urge to blame.
Love is a game in which the rules keep changing, so be crafty and
improvisational as you stay alert for each unexpected twist of fate.
Love enmeshes you in your partner’s unique set of karmic complications,
so make sure you’re very interested in his or her problems.
Love is a laboratory where you can uncover secrets about yourself that
have previously been hidden, so be ravenously curious.
Love is never a perfect match of totally compatible saints, so don’t let
sterile fantasies seduce you away from flawed but fecund realities.
Love is not a low-maintenance machine, so work hard on cultivating its
unpredictable organic wonders.
Love is not a wholly-owned subsidiary of DreamWorks or Disney, so don’t
let your romantic story be infected by the entertainment industry’s
simplistic, sentimental myths about intimate relationships.
Anything you’d like to add?
Robert Breszny
-Pronoia, the Antidote for Paranoia
